I don’t have

The parent I don’t have!!! I once had but I don’t have( who will take care of me)

The husband I never had!! I don’t have I never know when I will have( funny but thats the truth.. Who will be my companion)

Friends I had but don’t have( never know if I could trust someone enough to be that friend anymore)

Brothers I have but are not protective( when will my brothers take the fight o my behalf)

An adviser I had but don’t have( who will show me the right thing to do)

A child I wish to have but I don’t have ( who will do my errands when am too tired and weak?)

A full bank account which I dreamt of bt is not sufficient ( how do I settle my debt)

An energy I wish to run away from life but am exhausted ( how do I survive)

The God I have who is greater than all( do I really need to worry about “my I don’t haves?”)

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Adolescent relationships

Relationship amongst the adolescents  in today’s world have been abused. 

   Relationship is  a connection or association between people; it is  a connection by blood or marriage and in the abused form,  Relationship is a sexual involvement. An adolescent  is a person who is between childhood and adulthood(13- 19years). It can be a very tough transitional stage
   Most adolescents tend to connect with people who are not thier blood for different reasons. Our society consider adolescants as less important or inferior to adults. Adolescents are physically and sexually abused. Sometimes,they recieve threats and denial of control over things without reasons or explanation. Most adolescents are punished out of adults frustration. All these adult behaviours toward these kids make them yearn for someone to talk to and this may lead them into a relationship which is most times abused.

   Most types of relationships they usually engaged in  are: the sibling/cousin relationship,friendship,boy/girlfriend, same sex  and sexual partnership.

   Any type of relationship has it emotional outcome. For example, the sibling/cousin relationship will have an emotional outcome like attachment, intimacy, unconditional love and most times compassion. Friendship will have a compassionate,unconditional love, platonic love and intimacy. The bastardized form of relationship which is the sexual partnership is usually accompanied by jealousy, intimacy, passion and most times ends in heartbreak, guilt and disappointment.

   Adults should always have an opened ear to what the adolescents have to express. They should also be sure to check any kind of association amongst the them to avoid future troubles.

if you were to be my child

Sometimes I feel like shading tears when I see these little children roaming the major streets of our northern cities barefeeted.

How can I carry you for nine solid months, bring you to this world through painful labour and then surrender you to the streets to raise you?

Do I expect you to show love and compassion towards others when you were deprived of love at a tender age?

If you were to be my child! I will send you to the best school I can offord. I will give you good food to nourish your tiny belly. I will buy you beautiful clothes.

In my eyes you will always see love .. In my love you will know God and you will cherish humanity

 How is possible that I can sleep without knowing how you are surviving out there in the cold? How will I  not care whether you have a roof over your head?

If you were to be my child I wil always adore



Having a beautiful skin is the greatest part of being beautiful. People get attracted by what they see. Before using any skin care product, you have to consider your skin type, whether is a dry skin, oily skin,normal,sensitive or combination skin.

  1. Dry skin is often flaky and feels tight after being wiped. Use products with rich texture,cream or velvety serum texture
  2. Oily skin can be as a result of hereditary, diet, hormone levels, pregnancy, unsuitable cosmetics or stress. Use products with light fluid,thin lotion or gel texture
  3. Normal skin is close to perfection. It is soft,smooth and eventone
  4. Sensitive skin is easily irritated. Avoid any diet,water,weather or cosmetics that irritate your skin
  5. Combination skin usually produced oil around the T zone( forehead and nose only) use products for both dry and oily skin

No matter your skin type , these tips will keep it looking best

  • Use sunscreen
  • Stay hydrated

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