Adolescent relationships

Relationship amongst the adolescents  in today’s world have been abused. 

   Relationship is  a connection or association between people; it is  a connection by blood or marriage and in the abused form,  Relationship is a sexual involvement. An adolescent  is a person who is between childhood and adulthood(13- 19years). It can be a very tough transitional stage
   Most adolescents tend to connect with people who are not thier blood for different reasons. Our society consider adolescants as less important or inferior to adults. Adolescents are physically and sexually abused. Sometimes,they recieve threats and denial of control over things without reasons or explanation. Most adolescents are punished out of adults frustration. All these adult behaviours toward these kids make them yearn for someone to talk to and this may lead them into a relationship which is most times abused.

   Most types of relationships they usually engaged in  are: the sibling/cousin relationship,friendship,boy/girlfriend, same sex  and sexual partnership.

   Any type of relationship has it emotional outcome. For example, the sibling/cousin relationship will have an emotional outcome like attachment, intimacy, unconditional love and most times compassion. Friendship will have a compassionate,unconditional love, platonic love and intimacy. The bastardized form of relationship which is the sexual partnership is usually accompanied by jealousy, intimacy, passion and most times ends in heartbreak, guilt and disappointment.

   Adults should always have an opened ear to what the adolescents have to express. They should also be sure to check any kind of association amongst the them to avoid future troubles.